The Bible isn't just a story to believe—it's a way to live. After encountering Jesus in the grand narrative of Scripture, the question isn't just "Do you believe?" but "How will you live?" Jesus didn't just come to get us into heaven someday; He came to bring the Kingdom of God to us. This series explores what it means to follow Jesus as apprentices, not just admirers. You'll discover that the Christian life isn't about trying harder to be good—it's about training in the way of Jesus. Through biblical practices like community, Sabbath, prayer, and worship, we learn to arrange our lives around what matters most. Because the story you believe becomes the life you live.
Join us on WEDNESDAY nights as we practice Jesus' ways, in the worship center, 6:30-8:00pm.  Come for a time of teaching, learning, fellowship and practicing the ways of Jesus together as a church family.

Week 1 - "who are you becoming?" (Matthew 16:13-20)

Change is happening in all of us, whether we notice it or not. We feel it in our habits, our reactions, our relationships. Yet many of us carry a quiet unease: we’re not convinced that the change we’re experiencing is actually leading us toward life.

We set intentions to grow, to be calmer, freer, more generous, more Christlike—but our lived reality often tells a different story. We know what we want, we know what’s right, and we even believe in Jesus… yet something feels stuck. The gap between belief and becoming can feel frustrating, confusing, and discouraging.

This first week confronts a simple but unsettling truth: we are always being formed. Every day, something is shaping us. The question isn’t if we’re changing—it’s who or what is doing the shaping.

As we begin The Way of Jesus, we turn to a defining moment near the end of Jesus’ ministry where He asks a question that still echoes today—a question that reveals not just who we think Jesus is, but who we are becoming. From there, we begin to discover how Jesus invites us into a different kind of formation altogether.

You are always being formed.

  • Formation:
    • The Stories We Believe
    • The Habits We Form
    • The Relationships We Cultivate
    • The Environment We Live in
  • Formation doesn't usually happen in a moment—it happens OVER TIME, through the STEADY WEIGHT of our DAILY CHOICES, Relationships and LIVED EXPERIENCES.

How Jesus' Story Forms Us

  • Jesus' Transformation Process:
    • TEACHINGS Counter the Stories We Believe
    •  PRACTICES Counter Our Habits
    • COMMUNITY Counters Our Relationships
    •  The HOLY SPIRIT Counters Our Environment
  • Transformation doesn't happen overnight. It happens slowly, pursuing Jesus through consistent faithfulness over time, and through the refining fire of suffering.

Jesus Builds His Church on Transformed People

  1. Your transformation has Kingdom implications.
  2. You have authority you haven't been using.
  3. The church needs your transformation.

Week 2 - The Community That Carries You (John 11:1-44 )

Transformation doesn’t happen in isolation, and it rarely happens all at once. It happens through proximity—through a shared life with Jesus and with others over time. Peter didn’t become who he was called to be in a moment of inspiration, but through daily life with Jesus: walking roads, sharing meals, failing, learning, and staying. He wasn’t just a follower of Jesus; he was formed by Him within community.

Yet this raises an honest tension for many of us. We believe community matters, but when life gets hard, our instinct is often to retreat. We know how to talk about faith, but we struggle to live it out together in ways that reach beneath the surface. We’ve learned how to stay busy, connected, and even surrounded—while still remaining unknown.

Most of us live comfortably in shallow or mid-level relationships, carefully managing what others see. We share highlights, hide our losses, and say “I’m fine” even when we’re barely holding on. The cost of this kind of guarded living is quiet but heavy: loneliness in the middle of a crowd.

This week confronts the danger of doing life alone. When we hide our pain, we also hide from the very community God intends to use to carry us. Jesus’ way of formation invites us into something braver and deeper—a community where we are known, where we belong before we have it all together, and where God uses shared life to shape us into who we are becoming.

Jesus Shows Us — True Community Creates Space to Be Real

  • Jesus shows us that true community creates space for people to grieve differently.
  • Jesus Shows Us the Power of Lament
  •  True community creates space to be real and vulnerable.

Jesus Shows Us - True Community Participates in Each Other's Freedom

  • True community says: You don't have to remove the stone alone. We're going to move the stone together.
  • Only Jesus Can Call Someone Out of the Grave
  • The Community Participates in Freedom
  • You Can Experience Resurrection in Christ and Still Be Bound and not living in freedom.

Jesus Shows Us — True Community Multiplies Joy

  • This is the rhythm of Kingdom community: We weep together, and then we feast together.
  • When the Resurrection and the Life sits at your table — even in the shadow of death, even when the problems haven't been solved, even when the world is still broken—there is joy.

Defiant Joy

  • In an individualistic culture prone to despair, followers of Jesus form communities of defiant joy.
  • We resist despair by celebrating together.
  • We resist isolation by gathering around tables.
  • We resist cynicism by believing God is still at work.
  • We resist fear by reminding each other: We've seen resurrection, and we know how the story ends.
  • This is the community Jesus creates. This is the way of Jesus.

Week 3 - Confession: The Road to Freedom (John 8:1–11)

Two weeks ago, we asked the question, “Who are you becoming?” Last week, we saw that resurrection life, while real, still needs community to lead us into freedom.  Today, we’re asking a more personal and pressing question: “How do I really live free?”
Imagine a family about to buy a house. From the outside, everything looks right. Fresh paint. Clean lines. New landscaping. Solid foundation. But before signing, an inspector looks beneath the surface. Walls come down, and mold is discovered. Hidden. Unseen. But spreading.

That’s the thing about mold. It thrives in the dark. As long as it stays concealed, it grows. You can cover it up, paint over it, or ignore it, but the longer it remains hidden, the more damage it does.  That’s true of houses. And it’s true of us.

Many of us look put together on the outside, yet carry hidden places within. Not because we’re trying to deceive anyone, but because we’re afraid. Afraid of rejection. Afraid of judgment. Afraid that being fully known would lead to condemnation instead of healing.
So we hide. We manage the image. We keep things wrapped up. And the result is a familiar pattern. Alive, but not free.

Here’s the tension we’re sitting with today: why are the very things that need light the things we work hardest to keep hidden?
And what if confession isn’t what destroys us?  What if confession is the doorway to freedom?

The Trap of Shame

  • Shame Dehumanizes and Isolates
  • Shame Has Been Our Enemy Since the Beginning
  • Shame Becomes a Weapon in Religious Systems

The Space for Grace

  • Jesus Doesn't Wait for You to Clean Up — He Comes Close
  • Kindness of Grace
  • When Jesus Is the Center, Everything Changes: A Jesus-centered community says: "Jesus is at the center. And anyone moving toward Him—no matter where they're starting from—belongs here."

The Gift of Freedom

  • Confession: Agreeing with God About Reality
  • No Condemnation: Grace Came at a Cost
  • Go and Sin No More: Freedom to Live as You Were Designed
  • To become a people shaped by grace — a church where CONFESSION is SAFE, where shame loses its power, where Jesus stays at the center.

Week 4 - The Way of the cross (Luke 9:18-27)

In Luke 9:18-27, we reach the turning point of Jesus's ministry where He asks His disciples, "Who do you say I am?" After Peter confesses Him as the Messiah, Jesus immediately redefines what following Him actually means—the way of the cross, where death comes before resurrection and suffering before glory. This passage launches us into Lent, the 40-day journey toward Easter where we practice the way of Jesus by denying ourselves, taking up our cross daily, and following Him into death and life.

This Lent is an invitation to practice the way of Jesus from Luke 9:23—to deny yourself, take up your cross daily, and follow Him, not to earn His love but to experience the transformation that comes when you surrender what's killing you and receive what truly gives life. These 40 days prepare us to walk with Jesus toward the cross so that when Easter comes, we can truly celebrate resurrection, discovering that even now, as we practice His way, the Kingdom of God is breaking in.

Give up your own way

  • Romans 12:2
  • Lent gives us the space to detach from what conforms us so we can attach to what transforms us.
  • Jesus presents the paradox in verse 24: "If you try to hang on to your life, you will lose it. But if you give up your life for my sake, you will save it"—clinging to your own way destroys you, while surrendering to Christ brings true life.

Take up your cross daily

  • Hebrews 12:2
  • This isn't a one-time decision but a daily practice of dying to selfishness, pride, and fear, trusting that God is refining us through the pain.
  • Galatians 2:20 assures us we don't carry the cross alone: "I have been crucified with Christ. It is no longer I who live, but Christ who lives in me."

Follow Me

  •  Jesus calls us not just to follow teachings but to follow Him personally—a King who first walked the path to suffering, rejection, death, and resurrection
  • There's no middle ground in following Jesus; it requires complete trust and willingness to go wherever He leads, whatever it costs.
  • Jesus promises in verse 27 that those who follow Him "will not die before they see the Kingdom of God"—meaning we'll witness God's rule breaking into our broken world right now through healing, restoration, transformed hearts, and the peace that passes understanding.

Week 5 - Staying together (John 17:20-26)

There is something powerful that happens when people choose to stay together — when a marriage pushes through a hard season and comes out deeper, when a friendship survives conflict and becomes unshakeable, when a church family discovers something richer on the other side of a difficult moment. Community isn't just a nice idea — it's how God shapes us, forms us, and reveals Himself through us. We were never meant to do life alone. Hours before the cross, Jesus didn't pray for comfort or safety — He prayed for us, that we would stay together and reflect the unity of the Father and Son to a watching world. That prayer has your name on it.

The Power of Unity

  • John 17:20-21
  • The Father, Son, and Spirit exist in complete openness, self-giving love, and joyful togetherness.
  • No competition, no hiding, no distance. Jesus sets that as the standard for our relationships.
  • When Christians love across political divides, racial differences, and deep disagreements, that's supernatural. That's evidence. But when we divide like everyone else, we make the gospel unbelievable.

The Process of Unity

  • John 17:23
  •  Unity isn't automatic — it's a journey forged through conflict, forgiveness, and ongoing transformation.
  • That means dealing with conflict biblically — going first, speaking truth in love, and owning your part (Matthew 18:15, Ephesians 4:15).
  • It means forgiving without limit — not as a feeling, but as a daily decision to release the debt and refuse to weaponize the wound 
  • And underneath it all, it means a lifelong commitment to keep growing, keep pressing on, and never stop becoming more like Jesus.  

The Purpose of Unity

  •  John 17:23
  • Our unity isn't just for us — it's our mission. The world knows how to divide. What it's desperate to see is people who know how to stay together.
  • When we stay at the table when it costs us something, when we reconcile instead of cancel, when we forgive instead of cut off — we become a colony of heaven, a foretaste of eternity breaking into a broken present. Every time you stay when it's hard, you're giving the world a glimpse of what God's love actually looks like in action.

Week 6 - The Rhythm God built (Mark 2:23-28)

We were made for more than the grind. Deep down, every one of us aches to stop — to breathe, to be present, to feel peace instead of pressure. But somewhere along the way we bought the lie that our worth comes from our productivity, and we've been running on empty ever since. We've been learning that following Jesus isn't about trying harder — it's about training smarter, arranging our lives around the rhythms He lived by. And one of the most countercultural rhythms in the Way of Jesus is this: rest. God didn't leave us in that exhaustion. He built the answer into creation itself — a rhythm of rest woven into the fabric of reality before sin ever entered the world. And Jesus, standing in a grainfield, defends it in front of the most religious people of His day. The Sabbath was made for you. And the gift has a name.

We've been getting this wrong.

  • Mark 2:23-24
  • With every good gift God gives, we tend to do one of two things — idolize it or ignore it.
  • The Pharisees idolized the Sabbath. They were devoted people who built 39 categories of prohibited work to protect something they loved — but the gift got buried under the rules.
  • We've done the same thing in reverse, deciding Sabbath is optional, not realistic for people with real lives. Either way, we end up with the form of the thing and none of the life.
  • Jesus pushes back on both — not to add another obligation, but because He knows what we've been missing.

It was always a gift.

  • Genesis 2, Exodus 16 & 20.
  • Before it was ever a command, Sabbath was a creation. God finished His work, rested, and called the seventh day holy — the first thing in all of Scripture to receive that designation. He built a holy place right into your calendar.
  • Then He taught rest through manna before He ever commanded it at Sinai, providing double on day six so His people wouldn't need to work on the seventh. Sabbath was grace before it was law, and it was always a trust question: can you believe God will provide enough without you having to keep working?  

The Gift has a name.

This week - just start

  •  Mark 2:27-28
  • When Jesus declares "The Son of Man is Lord, even over the Sabbath," He is making an enormous claim. In first-century Jewish understanding, only God could be Lord of the Sabbath — and Jesus is saying, that's Me. Every Sabbath sunset, every ceased labor, every family gathered at the table was a shadow pointing not to a better system of rest, but to a Person. His name is Jesus, and He is the rest your soul was built for.
  •  You don't need a perfect plan. Pick a window — 24 hours if you can, a half-day if that's where you are, a few hours if that's all you've got. Then let it take shape around four movements:
  • Stop — Close the laptop. Phone in a drawer. Leave the list. When the anxiety rises, pray this: "Jesus, you are Lord of the Sabbath. Not me."
  • Rest — Ask yourself honestly: what actually brings life back into me? Take a nap without guilt. Eat a slow meal. Protect each other's rest. Build it together.
  • Delight — Light a candle. Make a favorite meal. Pull out the games. Laugh with your kids. Let it be slow. Let it be full. Delight is gratitude expressed in real time.
  • Worship — Show up with your people. Gather, open the Word, take the cup, lift your voice. Don't let the day pass without turning your heart toward God. Sabbath was never meant to be solo.

Week 7 - Grace that Stops the grind (Matthew 11:25-30)

ife is like the power bar on your phone. A hundred percent is what Jesus called life to the full. Zero is empty. Most of us don't rest until we're down to twenty or thirty percent — dangerously depleted — and when we do rest it's rarely long enough to get back to full. Just enough to keep going. But what do we miss in that last thirty percent? The full life God intended. Love, joy, peace. Wisdom. Hope. Grace for other people. Energy for our best work. All of it lives in the margins we never give ourselves.  This is not a time management problem. This is a soul problem. And no system, no routine, no app can reach it.  But God doesn't leave us there. Two thousand years ago Jesus looked at a crowd of exhausted, striving, never-enough people — and opened the widest door in the Gospels. He didn't hand them a better system. He gave them Himself.

Wrong Scoreboard

  • Matthew 11:25-26
  • The grind was never God's design for you.
  • Are you crushed from external pressures from the outside or shame condemning you from the inside?
  • You cannot receive a gift with clenched fists.
  • The sabbath is not just a gift for your body.  It is a weapon for your soul.

The Trust Problem

  • Mathew 11:27
  • You can't rest when you don't trust - and Jesus knows that.
  • Is there a gap betwen restlessness and rest in your life?
  • The gap is not a scheduling problem but a trust problem.
  • "Our heart is restless until it rests in You." - St Augustine. 
  • You can trust that Jesus has you because everything has been entrusted to Him.

Walk with Me

  •  Matthew 11:28-30
  • Rest isn't a destination you arrive at.  It's a person you keep returning to.
  • Come as you are.
  • Take: Let go - active surrender.
  • Learn: stay close - presence over performance
  • Find: He's enough - keep company with me.

This week - continue.

  •  Open your hands and say, I trust you Jesus with what I'm putting down - you are resisting the empire of performance.
  • Between restlessness and rest, where are you having the most trust issues?
    From Hurry — to Peace.
    From Busyness — to Margin.
    From Burnout — to Sustainable pace.
    From Noise — to Quiet.
    From Distraction — to Clarity.
    From Isolation — to Solitude.
    From Grasping — to Gratitude.
  • Don't just be still on your Sabbath, be with Jesus this week, open the Gospels and discover how Jesus moves, handles pressure, how He begins His days.

Week 8 - Faith that celebrates (luke 14:1-24)

We are 8 weeks into our  series, The Story: The Way of Jesus, and 4 weeks into Lent — making space, clearing noise, and preparing our hearts for resurrection. God built a rhythm into creation: Stop. Rest. Delight. Worship. This week we arrive at delight. Jesus sat down at a Sabbath dinner table and found a room full of devoted people with no joy in it. Then He told a story about a host who prepared a lavish feast — met with a string of ordinary excuses — and threw the doors open wider. And wider again. The Sabbath was never meant to be dour duty. It was meant to be the best day of the week. "I have come that they may have life and have it to the full." — John 10:10

The Sabbath was meant to be the best day of the week.

  • Luke 14:1-6
  • God charged the seventh day with His own joy — the Hebrew word for blessed means made happy (Genesis 2:3)
  • Sabbath delight has three layers: delight in God's world
  • delight in your own life — the Jewish tradition calls this dayenu, "it would have been enough, but…" 
  • and deepest of all, delight in God Himself, the joy He already lives in (Zephaniah 3:17). "Taste and see that the Lord is good." — Psalm 34:8

The Table Is Set and the Invitation Has Your Name On It 

  • Luke 14:15–20
  • Good things quietly crowding out the best thing. Hurry and joy are incompatible.
  • Joy is a discipline — you don't wait until you feel it to show up. You show up, and the joy meets you there.
  • Come empty. Come tired. The table is still set. "Be still and know that I am God." — Psalm 46:10

God's One Desire Is a Full House

  •  Luke 14:21–24
  • Our Sabbath tables are themselves a form of mission.
  • When we pull up a chair and let someone sit inside the joy we've found, we announce that there is a God who feasts and a kingdom where everyone belongs. "A great multitude from every nation, tribe, people, and language." — Revelation 7:9

This week - protect.

  • Before your Sabbath begins, make two lists — what you will do, and what you will not. 
  • Delight has to be protected.
  • Isaiah 58:13–14 makes the promise plain — call it a delight, show up for it, honor the day, and then the Lord will be your delight. 
  • The joy is on the other side of showing up. 
  • Then pull up a chair for someone who doesn't have a table to go to. Every table you set is a taste of the feast that never ends. Come.